Is eloping an option?

Sure eloping is one solution, but do you want to get married without your family? My husband and I got married without our families, due to our military obligations. I tried to plan a very small wedding, but the Navy kept interfering. My suggestion is to go along with your fiance's idea, and have a small wedding. I promise you it's not hard to plan. This forum is great for the DIY bride. Good luck.